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On buses and beggars

November 14, 2008

Recently, I went to Makati by commuting. After a long, long time, I again experienced the rush-hour travel by bus. I waited for a bus in Baclaran and felt relieved that a bus came in no time. So I went in, and the bus was already full. I wasn’t expecting that as the bus conductor kept shouting, “maluwag pa, maluwag pa, diretso lang po sa loob” [lots of space, lots of space, straight inside]. I couldn’t get out to find myself another bus because it already started moving, plus I was already pushed near the back of the bus. It’s a good thing though that a guy, I’d say a maritime student by the look of his uniform, gave me his seat. I’d like to think he was being a gentleman, then again, he got out of the bus as long as I sat down (hmmm…). After a few minutes, the bus was full, I mean FULL, of people. But I found myself smiling when the conductor again said, “maluwag pa, maluwag pa, diretso lang po sa loob.” What does he mean? haha.

 

When I reached Makati, I found an open area outside a relatively cheaper food complex, bought siomai, and sat down to kill time. A girl (X1) who might be a 12-year-old approached me and asked for alms. I don’t normally give money to young beggars (I believe most of the time they are exploited by some gang or own family), but I was in such a good disposition. Even the squiggling and pushing inside the bus did not change my mood (I woke up on the right side!). I gave her coins and she went away without thanking. I saw her walking to and fro along Buendia, but never going too far away from the food complex. Then, a woman approached who, I swear, really looked like X1. I said, “nabigyan ko na po pera anak niyo” [I already gave your child money]. “Wala akong anak” [I don’t have a child], I said ok and told her I don’t have anything to give her anymore; she looks healthy enough to work! She and B1 wore the same type of clothes, had a bandana in their heads, and really, really resemble each other. Then, I went about watching the passersby and the buses and jeepneys and eating the siomai. X1 again approached me, asking for my siomai. It seemed to me that she forgot approaching me earlier. I told her, “no, I am eating it,” and she left. After a while, another young beggar (X2) approached me, maybe a little younger than X1. But, no, I did not give her anything. Do you know why? Because when she spoke, I saw her retainers! haha. Are you kiddin’ me? A beggar with retainers?! Sosyal. haha.

 

The beggars and the buses surely made me smile. On normal days, it would have entirely ruined my mood. But I guess you just have to look for something funny in annoying situations, and you’ll be fine. :)

Posted by mordsith at 7:01 pm | permalink

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sa makati may nakita rin ako. lola na, kaya lang sosyal kasi nung dumaan ako sa pwesto nya sabi nya “good morning sir, piso lang sir.” hahaha. yang mga pulibi talaga. sinisira nila ang pangalan ng mga tunay na pulubi. yung tunay na nangangailangan. hindi lahat tulad nila. tsk tsk stk

Posted by pulubi association president at November 14, 2008, 7:21 pm

this post made me smile too by the end of it. but then, i felt sad that some people fool other people. and the saddest? they don’t change. never.

i don’t give alms to beggars too sometimes. it depends upon my mood and if that beggar seems to be capable of working still.

Posted by sej at November 14, 2008, 7:23 pm

and, natuwa ako sa beggar na may retainer. sosyal ha, as in! wanna see one of em. haha! (:

Posted by sej at November 14, 2008, 7:24 pm

mr. president, hindi kaya mas mayayaman talaga ang pulubi sa makati?

sej, yes, it's unfortunate that at these hard times, some people choose to fool others. i hope they would change. and when you see one of those sosi beggars, it would surely lighten you up. :)

Posted by mordsith at November 14, 2008, 7:36 pm

i only give alms to old people. usually anything that could be eaten or used. i once gave a kumot to an old man na tambay sa school near our house. basta anything na pwedeng makain i gave him before i go to work. sobrang naawa ako sa kanya kasi he’s so thin. he just disappeared one day. i dont want to think that something bad happened to him. sana he’s ok somewhere.

tungkol sa pulubing sosyal hahaha. this reminds me of bubble gang’s muchas grasas. sila michael v etc mga pulubing conyo. ang kulit nila! somehow based on true story pala yun hehehehehe

Posted by ka at November 14, 2008, 7:47 pm

i actually prefer giving slippers to little children. and coloring books. :) and to the oldies, i give them food and money (just in case they have to buy medicines).

baka taga legaspi village yung muchas grasas. haha.

Posted by mordsith at November 14, 2008, 8:04 pm

Mahirap talaga tigasan ang puso lalo na pag bata ang namamalimos. Minsan nga lang, iisipin mo na baka sa masama napupunta ang pera. Haay… dapat nag aaral ang mga batang yon…

Posted by kg at November 14, 2008, 8:07 pm

kg, oo nga e. ang gagawin mo na lang minsan wag lumingon. dilema talaga yan.

Posted by mordsith at November 14, 2008, 8:17 pm

well, we can’t really blame the children, though they can have ways how to go to school on their own.. i think their parents should be held responsible for them. tsk! sad reality.

Posted by sej at November 14, 2008, 8:43 pm

We try not to give money. We buy some crackers or bread and give these instead.

Kakatuwa naman yung may reatiners. :)

Posted by Rico at November 15, 2008, 8:49 am

one time sa one san miguel, somebody came knocking sa car window. i gave the woman my half-eaten tuna turnover. when she saw it was half-eaten, she threw it away :-) hooray for fake beggars! i mean, real beggars can’t be choosers, right?

Posted by maidapaypay at November 15, 2008, 9:26 pm

Haha! Sobrang natawa ako dun sa beggar with retainers. =) It’s true, we need to look at the situation in a different way no matter how unenjoyable it is. Keep the positivity.

Posted by witsandnuts at November 15, 2008, 10:50 pm

more annoying beggars:

a. those insistent ones who pull your white shirt with their dirty hand if you dont give them a penny.
b. those who hit your car with a stick or a toy if you say you have nothing to give them.
c. those with obviously rehearsed speech (te, pangkain lang po, maysakit kapatid ko, pang-rugby po haha)
d. those with dirty hands who leave gross marks on your car window.
e. those who come in group and block your way.
f. those who were already given Php5 yet they ask for more.
why did you commute in the first place mordsith? coding? :D

Posted by kooonin at November 15, 2008, 11:10 pm

That beggar having retainers is a funny picture, cool… bakit ba ganyan na ka-desperado ang ibang tao sa paghahanap ng mapagkukunan ng pera o pagkain, they’re destroying the image of the Filipinos by pretending to be beggars…They’re too lazy to stretch bones and muscles to work… nakakainis ano?

Posted by sheng at November 16, 2008, 12:14 pm

ganyan talaga ang PUV sa manila. mas siksikan yan lalo na kapag maulan. ilang beses na rin ako naipit, at naapakan. kahit aircon, ang siksikan talaga nakakasuffocate.

sa manglilimos naman, dito sa bicol nagkaroon ako ng encounter. bagong kulot pa lang ang buhok nya. baka yung pinanglimos nya, pinang-salon nya. sozzy di ba? hindi ko na sya nakikita dito sa province, i hope she’s ok.

:)

Posted by spiky at November 16, 2008, 6:11 pm

Buti pa si X2 nakapagpa-retainers. I’m still saving up to get a set. Haha. Syndicate nga malamang may hawak nyan sa Makati. Ask mo si Spider Pig [pang-bonding nyo na din], may kilala daw shang higher-up sa ganyang operations. Kulit db. Hehe. =)

Posted by pulot at November 16, 2008, 7:35 pm

rico: konting limos na lang, magkaka-braces na siya like you. haha

mai: if you give me a half-eaten tuna, i wont throw it away. promise. :)

wits: yeah, im wishing id have more of this positive attitude. sometimes, i get impatient. :)

kooonin: add this to your list, rugby boys. haha. i figured it would be more efficient for me to commute (ie, no need to find parking space, no need to figure out one-way streets, etc.)

sheng: kaya nga. there are really some old people (those who walk very slowly) who still work or sell things. marami talagang kamag-anak si juan tamad. :)

spiky: baka nagpa-straight na ng buhok kaya di mo makilala. ang sosyal naman niya! baka kulang lang siya ng pambili ng makeup. haha

pulot: ask mo naman siya pag sumabay siya sayo pauwi. :P

Posted by mordsith at November 17, 2008, 9:30 am

hehhehe awww mabuti you woke up with a good mood

Posted by louraine at November 17, 2008, 8:52 pm

haha. oo nga, louraine. and it lasted until the end of the day. :)

Posted by mordsith at November 18, 2008, 9:37 am

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take care

God bless

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Posted by louraine at November 18, 2008, 3:50 pm

sus read ko ulit sa taas hehehhe.. was really one hilarious day!..

at least you have managed it well and make a joke out from it

Posted by louraine at November 18, 2008, 3:52 pm

haha! goog point. tawanan nlng natin ang mga bagay2 para masaya. iwas wrinkles pa. oh dba bongga! hehe.. :D

Posted by purpleworm at November 19, 2008, 3:30 pm

Baka kailangan niya (pulubi with retainers) pang sturbucks that day hehehehe, susyal!

Posted by wosamia at November 20, 2008, 2:43 pm

On buses - worse sa provincial buses. One time, I spent 1.5 hours standing in the middle of a jam-packed bus, in heels and skirt, from Victoria to Calamba, Laguna.

On beggars - that retainer bit is funny. One time, sa Baclaran, I gave this boy some coins just because he’s so persistent; tiningnan ako masama, tapos sabi “Grabe, ang kuripot naman!” I was actually mildly amused, he he he

Posted by zarine at November 20, 2008, 3:08 pm

thanks everyone for the comments!

on buses - i wish we could have better transportation systems, such as more MRTs, within Metro Manila and across the nation, with Philippines being an archipelago. It would be great for commuters and on a larger scale for the economy.

on beggars - no matter how irritating they are, their still kids, and the government and the society (us) should do the best we can to keep them out of the streets and into the classrooms. still, we already have our hands full of problems. so, it would be best for parents to understand the importance of family planning. if you know you wont be able to raise your children well, wait until you are ready; thus, work hard.

Posted by mordsith at November 21, 2008, 10:01 am

hello…

It did not change your mood….if that happen t me naku baka nainis na ko (my bad) hahaha!

have a nice day

Posted by jeanny at November 21, 2008, 11:46 am

yeah, jeanny, it’s a miracle that i stayed in a good mood. haha.

Posted by mordsith at November 21, 2008, 12:05 pm

aba at sosyal naka retainer pa! Astig na bata yun ah! hahaha….

Posted by jetty at November 25, 2008, 1:23 pm

haha! yan mismo ang naisip ko. :)

Posted by mordsith at November 25, 2008, 7:50 pm

HeLLo! I enjoyed reading your post.
Your encounter with beggars gave me an idea on what to write in my sociological inquiry. Thanks! :)

oh, and with the buses… nakakainis kaya yung kunduktor na tawag ng tawag ng pasahero tapos sinasabing maluwag pa pero pag-akyat mo ng bus, sabit ka na lang pala. haha

Posted by nah at December 2, 2008, 3:30 pm

thanks and glad you got an idea from my experience with them. at least we got something from them! haha. :)

Posted by mordsith at December 3, 2008, 4:07 pm

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